Aside from stocking up your drawers with good sex toys, you must also consider throwing in a couple of lingerie in your wardrobe. You might already see some women in movies who wear lingerie and find them sexy and hot. Imagine yourself wearing those lingeries, how will you feel? Will you feel hot and sexy too? Will it turn you on?
Time will come that you and your partner will notice a decrease in your sex drive over time. This is common in couples that are together for a very long time. If you noticed that your partner is not as enthusiastic in bed as before, this only means one thing, you need to spice up your sex life a bit.