There is nothing more arousing than to blindfold your partner and tie them up with a pair of cuffs and have them spread-eagled magnificently for you to torture mercilessly with a pleasure feather. Either to a four-poster bed or on the floor with four chairs. Guys, this is a great way to practice the art of foreplay! It is one surefire way to get them excited and their juices flowing. Make sure that once you found their hot spot, ask them to let you know where they are, and stay there for 15 minutes with soft, long, lingering strokes. Move on to discover another spot and do the same.